
Sex, and People
The sweet nectar of a Healthy Life
I actually wrote the foundation for this piece a couple of years ago. But the subject, insights, and the all-encompassing conclusion is every bit as important and right today as it has always been and always will be.
So to keep your summer feverish minds entertained, here is a simple look at real sexual equality and our beautiful individual needs and pleasures as they actually are.
Our garden of wonder - Life
The simplicity and beauty of that wonderful thing called female sexuality is that it is just as individual as male sexuality. There are no gender-based differences in lust and need, love, and naughty fun. The only real gender-based differences are the purely physical ones.
As far as pleasures, sweet naughty fun, curiosity, yummy horny needs of pleasures and exploration being met and fulfilled. It is all based on who we are as individuals.
What we need and enjoy, what makes us tick and what makes us cum.
Our gender, gods or culture matters not at all when it comes to fulfilling sex and life. What matters emotionally and sexually is what makes us as individuals tick, and that is a pretty sweet and wonderful, life improving truth.

The simplicity of pleasure and naughty sweets
If you are a male or female still stuck in denial, thinking that girls somehow do not need to explore their own pleasures and desires and that they lack the right to be horny. If you believe that girls should not masturbate and be allowed to explore their own pleasures, needs, fantasies, and desires any way they fancy. If you believe that they can not be allowed to do so with whomever it is that they desire to explore and enjoy it with and that unlike you, they do not deserve to be pleasured and fulfilled in both body and soul, according to their own real needs and desires.
Then I think, that it is time for you to get with the program and stop being an abusive reality-denying fuck.
Girls are just like us guys and that is a beautiful thing, so allow yourself the joy of enjoying girls to enjoy all aspects of life and sex with the very same way and freedom that you demand.
No, sexual equality between gender and people do not constitute a sexual vanilla relation.
Nor does it constitute a strict couple relation. The only rules that apply are what all consensual adults involved do enjoy. Their own need and desire to enjoy and explore the things they crave in any and every given moment. That is what matters.
Some girls like it rough.
Some like it with many, some like it kinky, some like it in their butt.
Some like it girl on girl, some like it sweet, some like it all, but really need it all to be with someone that they actually love.
Some like it with someone, just not with you.
Either way - it is all individual. And it is all yummy and right just like it is.
Neither of it is, in any way, gender or religiously or abstractly location based. And it is not for you or anyone else to decide what another person like and need. Neither do you get to have a say over the things that others absolutely do not need to be fulfilled, sexually and emotionally in life.
So, go out. Play, enjoy, allow, remove barriers and controlling do not´s. Blow your own and your partners mind with the pleasures, desires and yum that you and your partner(s) do enjoy.
Treat each other good. Allow, enjoy and set free.
Be sexually honest and open-minded about your own and others needs. Pleasures as well as dislikes. Respect the, no, and the do not, as much as you respect the "yes please". And always make sure that everybody else involved has the same freedom, pleasure, and treatment that you in turn crave.
Remember to say yes. And to say no to everything and everyone according to your own and your partner(s) real wishes.
A life of real fulfilling equality and mindblowing sex is as simple as that.
People are who they are. We all walk through life with our own evolving needs and pleasures.
Other people's writing.
Such as mine, or the bible or any other "holy" scripture or mad men´s rumblings, truly do not matter at all, not when it comes to our individual likes and dislikes.
Religious faith is all good and fine to have, but never forget, the things which you read. The things people preach about where once spoken and written by simple people like you and me.
Some of them were wise, and a few of those things might still be wise and good. But a good part of past wisdom and rules were slightly deranged and unhealthy wrong. The examples of this are as plenty as the grain of sands on any beach around the world
I know it and so do you.
Also, not to forget that some teachings and proclaimed 'do not do that' exists solely to give the ruler (person) of that time (situation) power over the masses ( you).
People evolve. And so do you and your own needs. Old and out of date things that only served to make life less, they are just that. Out of date and out of place in today's more enlightened world.
There are no laws that remain unchanged.
There are no opinions of another person that holds truer than your own actual needs.
Your joy and everyday reality matter far more than the words of a priest or neighbor, spouse or relative.
Because at the end of the day, we are all simple and wonderful human beings, and we are all who we are. Perfect as we are in the changing now. Living this one single life, smiling at the things that make us smile. Orgasming from the things that make us quake, and disliking the things we dislike.
And that is what actually matters when it comes down to how you live a happy, fulfilling and kind life.
So if you love someone, then, who they actually are through and through, is a wonderful thing that you should enjoy. And you should, of course, do so, exactly as they are, and as they evolve in life.
And if you do not enjoy your partner as they are, or for who they are becoming, sexually, emotionally, physically and intellectually. Well, that person is in that case, simply not for you because people, like animals, belong in the wild, roaming this one world as they are, by their own choosing.
No one should be chained up by others emotional and intellectual restrictions and limitations.
( unless we are talking about handcuffs and restraints in a purely sexual way that all involved crave, enjoy and lust for. If so, that is obviously all good, fun and yummy :P ).
Wishing you all a wonderful week and month,
Now, please fuck each other ( or yourself ) the way you enjoy. If that is what you want to do that is.
And yes. If you are feeling like an exception that just do not need or crave sex ( exception since most are emotional and sexual beings ) ,or at least not with your partner, that is simply how it is.
And that too is perfectly OK, and normal to feel. Individual feelings that needs to be respected as much as any horny humans desires. You are who you are. Never settle for less, and never allow your partner to make you believe that you deserve less.
Life and love is wonderful, but it can only be so when you allow the removal of artificial limitations in life and relationships, limitations on a person's emotional and sexual pleasures is not the way to a happy, fulfilling life.
We also know that a fulfilling and deliciously yummy sex life, the way all involved enjoy it, is the way towards a more fulfilling life and relationship.
Today, we also know that girls, just like guys are perfect just the way they are. Horny, yummy, sexy, hot and beautiful just as they are.
So have fun, enjoy life, and your day.

Photography by NASA. This gorgeous photo of Saturns rings was taken in visible light with the Cassini spacecraft's narrow-angle camera on June 9, 2016.
It was acquired at a distance of approximately 1.1 million miles (1.8 million kilometers) from the rings.The real life scale is 7 miles (11 kilometers) per pixel. And how mindblowing is not that?
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